Body language, tone of voice, and facial expressions form up to 90% of our communication. So what is the impact of a weakness in the cognitive function whose very job is to perceive and interpret non-verbal information?
Located in the right hemisphere in our prefrontal cortex, a deficit in the Non-Verbal Thinking cognitive function can often lead to a diagnosis of a non-verbal learning disability.
The impact can be significant: leading to social conflict and poor interpersonal and self-advocacy skills. Social issues are caused by an underlying struggle to understand one’s own emotions as well as others, to know how to modify behaviour depending on the surrounding people and situation or learn from non-verbal cues.
People can be misdiagnosed, misunderstood, and often develop a reputation as rude, arrogant, shy, or anti-social.
In fact, most individuals with NLD (Non-Verbal Learning Disability) experience anxiety due to an inability to meaningfully understand and connect with parents, teachers, peers and spouses.
Some are able to ‘hide’ their misunderstanding – some can be charming and even precocious with language skills. But at some point, the complex tapestry of social navigation becomes too much to bear.
Adolescence can be an incredibly painful time of social isolation or misbehaviour. In adulthood missing or misinterpreting cues means trouble setting priorities or communicating with potential employers or mates. The world can feel like a minefield.
Other cognitive functions may be part of an NLD diagnosis, including struggles to navigate physical space, have a sense of one’s own body in that space, even having a sense of how things operate or are sequenced.
You can find more information on this topic in Chapter 11, Leap Before You Look, of Barbara Arrowsmith-Young’s, The Woman Who Changed Her Brain.
